Do you know the feeling - what you want just does not materialize. You cannot bring your desire into this life.

You know exactly what you want. You do what you think is right to make it happen. But it doesn't happen.

What is happening? What is going wrong?

There is something in your system that is sabotaging your plans.

Why would "I" sabotage my own plans?

The answer is that you may be running software in the background that you are not aware of. A long time ago you may have adopted (copied) a belief from a close role model*, as young people do.

Today you may want to be "rich and successful", but a long time ago you may have copied a belief which might have been something like:-
- rich people are dishonest;
- rich people are unhappy;
- success means you have no private life;
- richness and success mean working very hard.

Now, if consider dishonesty – unhappiness – lack of private life – working very hard as being undesirable characteristics, then you will also avoid being rich and successful, even not allow yourself to be rich and successful. Unless, of course, you fight with yourself with the risk of causing a heart attack or such like.

The reason you cannot and do not do what you want is part of your programming. But you know that don't you?

You have created the obstacle. You can remove it too!

How are you sabotaging your life?
What would you like to go beyond?

* Yesterday I asked, "From whom did our three- year- old daughter learn to say "Oh, no, no, no" in that very sweet engaging way?"
"From you", was the reply.
Oh really, I thought.
Two minutes later my daughter said, "Daddy, were you singing My song?"
What did Daddy say, "Oh, no, no, no!"

Nigel coaches people like you to freedom – freedom from limitations, freedom to do/be more, financial freedom, emotional freedom, freedom to be yourself.

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