You cannot change history, but it can become just
an experience which got you where you are today –
a stronger and wiser person. Instead of getting
identified with the lead actor - falling into the same
old script and lost in the emotion of the movie as you
always do - you can enjoy the moment as a fresh
new experience.
This is what a friend of mine calls unloading the
emotional baggage. And it makes you more available
for getting on with life: apart from feeling so light
without the weight of that "rucksack full of bricks".
Please, I do know that these emotional responses
are totally real and overwelming. But it is important
for me that everyone knows that it is possible to stop
the emotional charge associated with these
experiences - - it is quick – it is forever – it is a
gentle and painless process. And when you are ready
you know that you can give yourself freedom from
your emotions.
A final note: I had such a rough time as a
boy at the dentist,
when I left home and started making my own
decisions - I decided not to go to the dentist. Some
years later my teeth were disintegrating from the
neglect and demanded attention. To my surprise
when I finally returned to a dentist I found that the
tools and means available to the dentist were totally
changed from my boyhood: and the experience at the
dentist was totally different from the one I had in my
memory. It is so nice to have my teeth in order: and
it was not a painful /traumatic experience because
the methods used have developed.
Nigel works with people in business who want to do
more with less – to make a greater contribution with
less effort – to be more themself with less holding
them back.
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