If you wish to influence people
An excellent way to increase your influence with
people is to adjust your language to match their
pattern of behaviour. Are you talking to a big picture
person or a specific/detail person? Does he make
decisions because it looks or sounds or feels right or
does he need to go through it a number of times and
let it mature? Is he a person that builds on areas of
common ground, or does he like "new concepts"
and "fresh approaches"? And so on. The right
language for the right person for the desired result!
It is not a question of whether you are in the
right job, but can you relate effectively with people?
How you communicate will determine what response
you get from your subordinates, peers, superiors,
suppliers, customers, everyone.
How important is it for you to work and get
results?
I work with people in business who want to do more
with less – to make a greater contribution with less
effort – to be more themselves with less holding
them back.
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